The toast may be made by a friend of the bride’s family, the master of ceremonies, or more typically, the best man.

“Ladies and Gentlemen.. It is an honor and a privilege for me to propose a toast to the bride and groom. I have known (groom’s name) for several years. (Relate a short story from childhood or college days. Be sure not to overly embarrass the bride or groom.) I remember well when he first met (bride’s name), suddenly he lost interest in (our previous activities).

“But seriously, (groom) is a great guy and he has found a wonderful person to marry. (Relate an amusing story about the bride, some of her accomplishments, or compliment her charm or wit). (Groom) is a lucky man!

“Ladies and gentlemen, please rise, with glasses full and join me in wishing the bride and groom much success and happiness. To the bride and the groom!”

Groom’s Response:

“Ladies and gentlemen.. on behalf of my wife and myself, thank you for the gracious toast to our health and happiness. We appreciate your kind words and good wishes. I am indeed a lucky man to have found (bride) to be my wife, and to have all of you here today to share our joy and happiness.

“There are many people to whom we wish to express our thanks and gratitude. It is difficult to know just where to begin, but I must mention our best man (name); our maid of honor (name) and our wedding party. You have helped us so much. Thanks for everything.”

As with every other aspect of your wedding, exactly what you say in your toast, is a matter of personal taste and desires. You may also want to include both sets of parents in your thank you toast, as well as any others who were especially helpful in the planning of the wedding.